Sunday, December 30, 2012

At the Close of 2012

Here we sit, at the close of another year, and I have some time to sit and think.  A year!  Where does it go?   Some of into memory, some of it forgotten.  I think these days I probably forget more than I remember, perhaps that's just part of getting old.  Or perhaps my brain cells are being used up in other ways?  I know some of you have noticed the sneaky addition I put on the sidebar two or three weeks ago - this may be a reason for lost brain cells.  Vander Deen Edition 2013 is due at the end of June, and we are looking forward to meeting our newest little blessing.  I thought maybe I even felt some little kicks the other night?  It was probably just my dinner but I can imagine it was Little One saying hello (and please stop coughing)
We are halfway through the Christmas break, and at a slower pace now.  We were gone for two nights to Hamilton, and the following three nights to Strathroy for family Christmas celebrations.  We returned home before our first big snowfall in quite some time (a few years) on Boxing Day evening.  It's been fantastic having Mike home for the break, especially because I've been sick for the last three weeks.  Yuck!  After getting a prescription for antibiotics on Christmas Day, I am happy to report that today I was able to taste (somewhat limited, but still taste!) my supper!  When you've been missing your taste buds for more than a week, especially at a time of year when delicious looking dinners and chocolates and desserts are available in plenitude, leftovers taste amazing!  I may or may not have sampled a few chocolates in the cupboard since supper time...
Again, I have to admit I've been somewhat pathetic in my picture-taking responsibilities.  We did receive a new set of rechargeable batteries for Christmas, so that might remedy some of the problem, but I have a feeling the lack of pictures really has more to do with me than dead batteries. 
Peter had an interesting Christmasy question for me the other day. 
"God put your baby in your tummy, right Mommy?  Jesus is God.  Who put Jesus in His mommy's tummy?  Did he put himself there?"
Aaron also had a somewhat shocking thing to ask his Daddy a few days ago, revealing his lack of understanding of life and death. 
"Daddy, can you kill Peter?  He's pesting me."
Aaron was very excited about the first snowfall, even if it was just a dusting.  
He was out there for an hour filling up his dump truck and making teeny piles. 
We went to visit Sinterklaas at the Dutch store.  The kids were a little less scared of him than last year - well, the youngest in particular.  Aaron didn't even mind being dropped off his lap and almost landing on his face. 
The Schotmans were eager to get their Christmas card out this year, 
and graced our cupboards for at least two weeks before anyone else joined them!
We gave our kids their gifts on Sinterklaas evening this year, and were happy about how that went.  Aaron is checking to see who rang the doorbell and left a bag of presents on the porch.  The chocolate letters in their shoes have not yet been noticed.
Walkie Talkies!  They would be a lot more fun if the boys would remember to push the button down while they talk.  The boys also received some warmer blankets for their beds.
 Nate was pretty thrilled by a toy bird, and spent a while running around the house making it fly. 
 These boys were pretty excited about Sinterklaas' visit!
 
 
Nate had a hearing test done in the middle of December after being referred by his speech pathologist.  I was expecting the results to be completely normal but as it turns out, he had fluid built up behind both his eardrums, which was the first test they did with a tympanometer.  The next test was done inside a sound-proof room with earphones and some games he had to play.  Their assessment showed he has a mild hearing loss in his left ear, and a moderate loss in his right, with him being unable to hear upper and lower frequencies that would be normal at his age.  We had an appointment lined up already with an ENT (Ear Nose Throat Specialist) this coming week to check out his adenoids and tonsils, so it will be interesting to see where this assessment leads. 
Opa enjoying his four grandsons
 All eight grandsons on the Vander Deen side
 A fun drift off the roof seen from Nate's room.  That's a lot of snow!
 That's right, boys, keep shovelling!
 Mike did a trial run making olibollen this week.  They turned out well!  
(at least I was told so, I still couldn't taste anything at the time)
 Aaron asked me, a little concerned, "Mommy, is that oliebollen alive?"

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Another Late Post (What Else Is New?)

Well, I figured I'd better post before it's been a month from the last post... I've been quite delinquent in my job as official picture-taker of the family, so I don't have a whole lot of inspirational pictures to load up for you.  I'll do my best!  One thing I know is sorely lacking on this blog at the moment is a post about the wonderful celebrations that occurred on October 13 - Timothy and Danielle's wedding of course!  I was going to remedy that this evening, but it appears that the only pictures I have on my computer are either blurry shots of the reception hall from my seat at the head table or one last picture of me at the end of the day in my pajamas taking out all 75 bobby pins from my hair.  Since those aren't exactly exemplary shots of the fantasticness of the day, I'll have to save a wedding post for when I get some better pictures from someone else's computer.  Let me just say that the day went very well, a good time was had by all, and the bride and groom looked absolutely radiant!  Heartiest of congratulations, my dear sister and brother-in-law - we pray that God will continue to shower you with blessings in the years ahead as you begin your married life together!
And on to the random non-wedding pictures that have accumulated on my camera since the last time I posted.  To begin with, here is a shot of little Nato on the day he fell off the couch and put his teeth through his lower lip.  Poor guy!
Playing outside in the backyard before we got our new lawnmower from Dad M.  I was almost starting to lose the children in the long grass.
 
 Off to the park on a warm October morning, no coats required. 
 My middle sweetie
I realize these self-portraits of me and the children don't ever yield any award-winning shots, but there's something very truthful about how they portray life with little ones at home
Practising his writing skills
 My oldest sweetie
My youngest sweetie - this is one month to the day from when he first cut his lip.  There will be a scar there for quite a while
 Nathaniel has changed SO MUCH in the last number of weeks.  Basically, I think he realized he was finally getting his follow-up appointment with the speech pathologist (he was first assessed in April) and he decided to kick it into gear.  A month and a half ago, he had just a handful of words and wasn't really trying to repeat what we said to him.  I think a switch flipped in his head, and he started repeating things after us, singing along to songs (other than just saying "amen" over and over) and using words much more regularly.  I received a checklist from the speech pathologist with a whole variety of words from different categories, and I was to check off which ones he understood, and which ones he understood and said.  The comprehension wasn't a problem for him, it was the verbalization that seemed to be the trouble.  I think over the last few weeks I could go over that checklist and change it every single day, as he's been adding new words to the vocabulary like it's going out of style.  It is SO exciting to hear!  He's been starting to put two words together, and he's happy to be able to communicate more effectively with us.  He loves to sing along to songs with us and be able to request his favourites.  There are still some sounds that he seems unable to make, but I'm sure that will all come with time.  This picture below is of him singing one of his favourite songs, "Holy, Holy, Holy"
November is a birthday month for our home, and with birthdays come cake and icing.  I had prepared a batch of icing for Peter's cake and had some leftover in a bowl on the counter.  I went downstairs to fold some laundry, and Peter came down to let me know that Aaron had "eaten some of the chocolate".  When I came upstairs, the entire bowl of icing was licked out, and Aaron was nowhere to be found.  I discovered him hiding in the shoe closet in shame, and hopefully nursing a stomachache. 
 Working on "thank-you" goodie bags for his birthday party visitors
 Completed goodie bags for Peter's four classmates that came to help celebrate
 Opening his presents on birthday morning!  Happy birthday to my first five-year-old! 
 A rousing game of Junior Monopoly with Dad while Mom makes Dutch pannekoeken for breakfast.  After breakfast, we headed out to Jeremy and Sarah's place to meet little Timothy, their newest addition to the clan (congratulations by the way!!).  Afterwards we went to Dad and Mom VD for dinner before heading home again.  
The experimental icing-design cake.  I think it turned out reasonably well (maybe not up to Pinterest standards, but who is?)  The jet was perhaps a bit big for the cake but I was told that it gave it a "dimensional" look
 This little stinker has fallen in love with the camera.  Every time I try to take a picture of something, he gets very loud and starts pointing at himself, saying "ME! ME!", and then he gives me a big grin. 
 Mom and Dad M came for a visit and dinner to congratulate Peter on his birthday
 Opa reading with the older two

Monday, October 29, 2012

Hurricane Babbling

We're hunkering down in anticipation of Hurricane Sandy, which is due to hit here sometime this evening with furious winds and excessive rainfall amounts.  Grocery stores were exceptionally busy this morning during our early morning grocery shopping trip with people buying canned goods and bottled water in anticipation of an extended power outage.  We've already had 45-50 mm of rain, not connected to the hurricane system, in the last three days, several mm of which have unfortunately found their way through the chimney cleanout into our workshop.  Thankfully it's the only part of the basement without flooring, so at least we can see what's going on and we can dry it up again fairly successfully.  It seems that an additional length of drainage tile on one of our downspouts has fixed the problem, at least temporarily.  Basements + water = frustration!  Perhaps all the crazy wind gusts will dry up the rain before it makes everything too soggy?  Probably not.  We'll be parking the van in the carport tonight, although I think most of the vulnerable trees in this city were downed in the windstorm last spring.  The wind is coming from a different direction this time, so that might make a difference.  We're hoping that if the power goes out, it's not out for too long, or we'll be crashing Danielle and Timothy's place to huddle around their gas stove :)    
I have a number of little stories or anecdotes that I've written down in the last little while that really need to be put into a post, but I'm not feeling terribly eloquent at the moment.  I'm just going to post this in all it's literary un-glory and if it's not up to snuff, you can leave a comment to complain.  Or leave a comment to encourage, whatever you like.  Believe it or not, I prefer encouragement. 
Peter is really enjoying himself at school and is developing confidence in his interactions with other kids.  He wakes up eager for school and hops on the bus ready to take on the day.  We've had a few meltdowns on mornings when there is no school, and although that can be challenging, it's great to see that he likes being at school and learning new things.  They were learning about the letter U today and Peter proclaimed to his teacher that he already knew that it was the letter U, and that the animal with one horn and wings is called a uniform. He also saw a "snack" today in the urinal which he thankfully didn't try to touch since someone had peed on it.  Haha!!  We've had a few issues with the bus which hopefully will not occur again, and it seems that he gets along well with the other students he rides with.  A few of these students told Mike a few weeks ago that they really like Peter because he's cute.  They also really like his accent.  Accent?  We weren't aware he had one, so we were amused by that comment.  He also has informed us that he doesn't need to eat his vegetables or his spinach because he already has enough energy to do all the playing he needs to do.  Nice try kid.  
The older two boys pick up a lot more than you might give them credit for, and there is one thing in particular that they heard in a sermon about two months ago that has been repeated many times since.  Rev. Bouwers was preaching about the Lord's Supper, and how just as we need physical food to survive, so also we need spiritual food or we will die.  Well, this made a huge difference in the speed to which they respond to the call "lunchtime!" They just about trip over each other running up the stairs, because "The minister told us if we don't eat, we will DIE!"  Kind of handy, actually, except when they use it in the early morning.  They were up early the other day, and I was still in bed, listening to them talking.  Aaron came into our room, and he said to me "Mommy, we need to have breakfast.  Do you want us to die?"  There's a good motivator to get out of bed. 
A few weeks ago after the boys had been playing on the driveway we noticed a whole bunch of scratches on the side of the van.  As we were fairly confident who the culprit was, Mike confronted Aaron about it.  Aaron suggested, "I think maybe a bird pecker did it."  Good try there, Aaron.
Aaron does a lot of thinking about God, heaven, Jesus, blood, and other spiritual things.  The questions that he comes up with are intriguing and I am often impressed by the way that he thinks.  Some of the things he has asked me recently include:
"When we die, we go to heaven, right Mom?  How will God get our blood back into us so we will be alive again?"
"How does Jesus' blood make us clean? Grown ups are washed with Jesus' blood, but kids are washed with juice, right Mom?"
"Mommy, did Solomon buy gold for the temple from the store, or did Jesus give it to him?"
He is also picking up on words that sound the same and he is quite excited when he finds a match.  Two weeks ago, he was snuggling with Oma first thing in the morning.  After quietly laying there for a few minutes, he pipes up, "Hey Oma, 'let us' and 'lettuce' sound the same, eh?"
Other words that he's noticed are similar include (bye / buy), (sea / see), (too / two), (BiBLE / bull), (calcium / Mrs. Mechelse).  He is so very ready and excited for school, poor guy has another two years to go.  We've been working on a pre-K letters/phonics book at home, and he enjoys his "little school" lessons.
Nate is starting to pick up on a few more words lately.  He's still struggling with pronounciation of a number of different sounds, but he's made good use of the sounds he can master, and it's fun to hear him talking.  He's had "Mommy" and "Aaron" for quite a while, and the occasional garbled "Dad" comes out.  Other words/phrases include: go away, go home, home again, amen, (s)ky, moon, (s)tar, owie, eye/I, (yo)uuuu, yea.  I also hear a lot of arguing between him and Aaron that goes something like this: 
Yes! Mo! Yes! Mo!  And a lot of screaming and "go away"s.  They don't get along all that well right now, which has been a wee bit of a challenge.  Anyways, I'm waiting for a follow-up call from Speech Services for therapy for Nate, as well as a referral call from an ENT specialist to get his adenoids checked out in case that is what's causing trouble for him with his pronounciation (and also what may have been the trouble with his drinking issues as an infant).
So there you go, a non-eloquent update on how things are going over here.  Just a heads up - ever since I changed the way that commenting is done (you no longer have to enter in the cryptic letters to have your comment approved) I have gotten quite a few SPAM comments that kind of creep me out.  I will probably be adding a password to this blog in the near future to keep creepy people away.  If you're not a creepy people, let me know that you'd like to keep following and I can send you the password once it exists.  I imagine there are a few of you out there that don't know me well at all, or perhaps we haven't had contact in quite a few years - I'm thinking people who read from Alberta, Halifax, Tottenham, Perth AUS, or the mysterious Moutainview, California reader... I'd be tickled to hear from you!  You can leave a comment with your email or email me to be on the password list at rmussche at hotmail dot com. 
That's all for now!
Mike and I signed up for the One Match program to be on the list for stem cell donation.   We know now very personally how big a difference a stem cell match can make to someone, and if we can be that match for someone else, how amazing would that be?  It's very easy to sign up - a short questionaire online, and then a swab kit mailed to your home that you complete and mail back postage paid. 
The back corner of our yard... PRE-hurricane Sandy.  I think we'll have a swimming pool back there by the end of the week.  I made some paper boats with Aaron today, but convinced him to float them in the bathtub instead of outside because it's awfully cold and miserable out there right now!

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

The Last Month

Opa and his newest grandson about a month ago.  This little guy has grown so much since then!  My boys always gained a healthy amount in their first few weeks, and the most any of them had gained by 6 weeks was about 3 lbs  This little guy gained more than 5 lbs his first 4 weeks!  I think his Mama is feeding him whipped cream. 
 On the third Sunday in September, Mike and I went up to London to see Mom and Dad V in the hospital.  This was two days before Dad's stem cell transplant (check out his blog for updates!).  We were surprised to be able to go on a quiet walk around the hospital with him yet, and it was good to visit with the two of them.  This picture, taken from the parking lot, is of them waving goodbye from the isolation room window.  
Somewhere in the insanity of September, I had a milestone birthday.  30 years old!  It kind of got lost in the shuffle, but I celebrated with the younger two boys by taking them to the petting zoo to see the animals, feed the ducks, and play on the playground.  Mike went to Strathroy for the weekend to help out with installing new flooring, but Mom & Dad M and Danielle & Timothy came over, and we had a celebratory dinner at... wait for it... McDonalds.  Yeah.  Fancy dinner!  It went over a little better with the kids than a nicer restaurant would have.  Maybe next year we can celebrate 30 again. 
On the fourth Sunday in September, we went to Hamilton to witness and celebrate the baptism of our first nephew on my side of the family. 
On the next weekend, we had a baby shower at Tom's mom's home in Cayuga.  I didn't take any pictures at the shower, but I stopped on my way home to take a few pictures of the changing fall colours along the Grand River. 
 It's amazing how long a child can be entertained by putting toothpicks into an empty spice jar
What a ham
Peter brought home an "All About Me" book that he had put together in Kindergarten.  We had a good chuckle over some of his drawings.  He proudly showed me how he could spell the word "green" because he had copied it from the picture.  So apparently his favourite colour is "crayon"
 I'm not sure where he's had happy face cookies (maybe Tim's?) but it seems that he's been traumatized by them. 
This one made me laugh the most.  I would have liked to see the teacher's reaction when he proclaimed that his favourite food is asparagus.  What kind of four year old is this, anyways??  Haha!! At least it's an easy one to draw!
On the Thanksgiving weekend, we were planning to go up to Strathroy for an overnight stay at Jeremy and Sarah's place, a big meal on Monday, and a visit with Dad and Mom in the hospital.  The week before, on Wednesday, Nate woke up from his nap with a fever of 104 degrees.  He didn't seem particularly sad or sick, just a little whiny, the fever dropped with Tylenol, and it had cleared up by Thursday night.  Then on Friday night at bathtime, we found he had developed a rash from his neck down - looking a lot like the Roseola that he had last fall.  Unfortunately this meant that we weren't allowed to visit Dad, and we didn't want to infect all the little nephews, so we didn't end up going.  We went to Hamilton instead to visit my family (not T&L with their little guy though) and took the opportunity to go for some hikes in the forest near their house.  The fall colours were absolutely gorgeous!  On Sunday, we took the older boys and went with Opa to the woods
 The temperatures worked out well this year for some amazingly beautiful displays of God's handiwork
 Looking out over the 20 Mile Creek
 A picture with my hubby
Mike commented that he had to flip through so many "Mussche" pictures on the camera to get to any pictures of people... I guess that's kind of true, but there's so much beauty out there that it's hard not to take pictures. 
 
 On Thanksgiving Monday after church, we headed back to the trails with all the kids and a bigger group of friends and family.  And of course all our cameras. 
 It had been quite some time since I'd been back there on the trails, and it brought back many memories of hikes in years past.  This particular location below reminds me of a certain fuzzy caterpillar that gave me an allergic reaction - a bit of a funny story actually as it involved me ripping my pants off. 
 Somewhat failed family fall phfotograph
 Some of the ladies who accompanied us on our hike
 My lovely parents
 The happy engaged couple - only three more sleeps till the wedding! 
 My dear Mom and me
 The latest edition of Three-Boys-On-A-Couch